Miss Blessing–an early draft

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Miss Blessing.  Never once have I been anything but thrilled to have this name, for all the jokes are kind ones like, “Whoever marries you will get a blessing”, or, “Your parents must think you are a blessing.”  But jokes aside, I am truly blessed, and every day my heart sings a song of gratitude.

My name brings deep family roots with it.  My great grandparents survived the Depression after arriving from Germany by running a little bakery in a small New Jersey town.  Great Grandpa turned to fruit farming when, as you can imagine, giving away bread to anyone who was hungry didn’t work too well for the business.  Dad always said that not even a passing stranger left our family farm hungry.  My family has always modeled sharing with generosity, and I am blessed.

The tale goes that Grandpa was the only one left to help out on the farm when his older brothers and sisters went off to college.  He used to stop his plow as he passed the schoolhouse and peek in the window to hear part of the lesson before continuing around the field.  While he only completed his eighth grade education, he urged every one of his children and grandchildren to dedicate themselves to the pursuit of learning.  Our family is now mainly teachers and doctors with a sprinkling of business leaders, all hoping to make the world a better place, all hungering to know more.  Lifelong learning as a core value has blessed me every day.

From funny songs on the porch to a meal filled with puns, laughter accompanies my family everywhere.  During Dad’s battle with cancer, we handled many dark days by laughing together.  Who would not be blessed by the gift of laughter?

Grandpa and Grandma worked with me.  Dad and Mama worked with me.  Being responsible for chores and working until the job is done even when you get tired aren’t the usual blessings you’d eagerly count.  There is such satisfaction in loving your job, though, and in working alongside others.  I cannot wait to start teaching each day.  Hard work has been a blessing in my life.

Miss Blessing.  I have always loved my name.  Hopefully, hearing it each day will constantly remind me to live with the gratitude that should accompany such a flood of blessings.

Who are YOU?

On our first day of the Writing Institute, we wrote about our name.  Where did your name come from?  Were you named after someone?  Does your name have a meaning?  Do you have a nickname you like to be called?  Have your parents told you any stories about your name?  Do people often get it wrong, and do you have any funny stories about what happened?  What is the meaning behind your name?


So . . . tell us about your name!

I’ll share my writing, which is still just an early draft, not ready to publish yet.  Write about your name as a comment to this post (not on your blog, since you keep your real name private there).  Ask an adult to help you cut and paste it into the blog comment area and to check your safety choices.


I can’t wait to find out more about you, and neither can the other blog readers!

Total Honesty

Hi!  I’m home!  I just plopped into my favorite chair moments after arriving back from my very first week in the Writing Institute.

How was my week?  It was very wonderful, and I have so many things to tell you.  I made writing friends I expect will team up with me in many ways over many years.  Reading all about things I wonder about has me just about exploding!  We wrote and wrote and wrote.  I tried some new ways of thinking and discussing that helped me grow.   You and I will have to blog a lot about these many things over the next few weeks.

But the reason I stopped to write to my student readers at this exact moment is that the most important lesson of my first week was stepping into the learner role in a way I haven’t done for a long time.  I strive to be a learner every day, but most of the time it is comfortable learning rather than painfully stretching learning.  You see, I’m spending five weeks writing, when to tell you the truth, writing is really hard work for me.  I kind of like it best looking back at it after all the wrestling with words is done, and I especially don’t prefer Robert Frost, Jr., to read his right before I read mine, if you know what I mean.  I’m absolutely and completely exhausted at this moment, for I tried a lot of new things I’ve never tried before, found my way around a place I didn’t know, worked to listen intently to people I’m not familiar with, did my homework even when I was tired, and followed rules that sometimes felt hard to me.  Nothing has looked better to me in a long time than Gloriana’s exploration shoes sitting on the doorstep welcoming me home as I drove in the driveway.

So why am I telling you all this instead of my usual, “Great day coming!” sort of speech?  Here’s my promise.  Next time we are tackling that gigantic inquiry, when you have to keep looking for solutions without me giving you the answer no matter how long it takes, I will remember today.  When I give you my word that if you go on the journey with me, try again, and keep trying, you WILL conquer that complicated math idea that is so new and unfamiliar, I will remember today.  When you say, “This is hard for me, and even though I know I’ll figure it out someday, I don’t understand yet”, I will think back to this day.

My most important lesson of this writing week–walking in your shoes.  I won’t forget it.

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Clue Number Two

Have you guessed any of the mysteries yet?  Well, I’ll tell you the first few.  I am off on a learning adventure called the Plymouth Writing Project for five weeks!  I get the opportunity to research, share, write, discuss, dig deeper, question, wonder, and enjoy with many other writing teachers.  We are at Plymouth State University, and yesterday I showed you pictures of some of the buildings we use for our learning.   I wish you could come visit!  You would just love the library here.

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Here is a picture of the classroom building I was in today for our writing sessions.  We gave each other encouragement and suggestions, just like you do in your blog comments to other writers.

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This is the view from the desk where I study in my dorm room.  I am on the second floor, and I can see the beginning of the White Mountain Range as I work, so I look up a lot because it helps me write.

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Here is your second clue to help you guess the famous person.  He is a poet who taught here at one time.  On the ground in front of his statue it says, “and that has made all the difference.”

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Leave a comment with your guess!  The first DES student who guesses right will win a little writing prize!